husband trouble

I feel depression setting in. Chu is giving her resignation today and she was very upset, she called and cried her heart out. I am upset too and Am crying, I can't seem to stop. everything was so good three years back that is till her marriage and then things started going down hill. Both vena and chu has had bad luck with their hubbys. Vena's wouldn't go to work and by the time she was pregnant with Apps he lost his job and overstayed his visa and had to be repatriated by the government when UAE offered amnesity. But as she did not have a job, getting her out of the country before all the hell broke out was the priority.

But with chu, things are different. She has a job and a good one at that. But her bastard hubby lost his and is in india with the twins. the babies are just one year old and needs good care which her in laws are providing. But she does not trust them and her lazy hubby just lies around the house, without making any effort to find a job. All this has ended up in her having to resign to put things straight but she loves her job. I hope some miracle takes place. and everything works out for her.

getting married is a real mess, especially in a country like India where getting out of a marriage is difficult and messy, even when you know it was a mistake. While people in more liberalised societies take divorce for granted, and sometimes misuse it, for people like my sisters trapped in bad marriages, if getting out were possible it would have been the biggest blessing of all. now instead of divorce we hope and pray that these bad eggs drop dead and leave us in peace.

I suppose in a country like india with its tabboos and cultural sensitivities, a lot of women pray god to take up their better halves to his heavenly abode.